My (21f) dad (49m) doesn’t support my decisions, and today was the final straw.

On mobile, and ive been drinking a bit. Sorry before hand.

My father and I go way back. He raised me alone, since I was 10, along with a younger daughter and my brother who moved out as soon as we was 18 (5 years older than I).

My mom was never in the picture. They divorced when I was 10 and shes a bum. I dont know where shes at, if shes living or dead.

Anywho, my dad and I had grown close and when I turned 19, I moved out. He was extremely unhappy with this decision. He called me an idiot the day I moved out.

Time went on, We reconciled. We had grown close. I moved in with my brother and in june of this year, I moved to tennessee with my boyfriend. (before that, we lived in kentucky. we had been dating for over a year and he graduated college and he had plans of moving)

We both work fulltime, and im in school (online) about to graduate.

The situation: My boyfriend and I are buying a charter bus, to convert it to a “home” so in 5-10 years, we can travel with it and potentially live in it. We are financially stable and make a fair living.

I called my dad to tell him the news. He FLIPPED.

and thats when I realized its always been like this…

My little sister cut off contact with him when she has turned 18. Im kinda understanding why.

I told him that I felt i was being disrespected, and he told me “boohoo, you guys are foolish anyways”.

I dont get it. I cant make my own big girl decisions without him blowing up. Im really thinking of going o txt but thats means I have no family other than my boyfriend. I will say his family has been nothing but supportive and with the past boys ive dated, hes an angel.

Not sure what to do but ive been crying.

tldr: My father (49m) is never supportive and I (21f) am ready to cut off contact but idk where to start.

Submitted November 01, 2021 at 07:37PM by throw-away539463 https://ift.tt/31dMlyy