My fiancé (24F) and I (28M) have been together nearly 7 years. Engaged for about 3 months. In the first two years we had a fantastic sex life. As time has gone on though it has dwindled. To an extent, I suppose this is normal. But we went from having sex 5 nights a week to maybe having sex 1-2 times a month. I’m an early bird and she’s a night owl. I’m horny when I first wake up and she’s horny late at night. I’ll often watch porn and masturbate when I first get up before I get ready for work. I’m often too tired to initiate anything at nighttime. And she doesn’t really either.
We’ve lived together for about 5 years. We have a house together. We have 2 cats together. I love her family and we’re connected in many ways to each other. I work in construction and have a very labour intensive job. She used to work in the service industry but every since March 2020 when COVID started, she’s been at home all day most days. She’s in university right now doing online classes and has a job where she can work from her laptop at home. Long story short, she’s put on a lot of weight in the last year, and my already declining physical attraction to her has taken an even deeper dive.
We got engaged as a planned thing. She mentioned she wanted a ring and I decided to buy it. Custom made from a jeweller she follows on instagram. I guess I bought it because I didn’t want to face my feelings.
I’m scared to be alone. We’ve been together so long. I’ve spent almost my entire 20s with her.
TLDR; I don’t know if I should break off my engagement. I’m no longer attracted to my fiancé.
Submitted November 03, 2021 at 05:19AM by jmv1993 https://ift.tt/3EF4Zhb
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