Boyfriend’s (16M) asexual friend (19F) looked through many of our nude photos without consent. How wrong is this, and what should we do?

tl;dr Title says it all. Boyfriend and I are gay (16M), he went shopping with his asexual friend (19F), she went through his phone whilst he was in a changing room. The photos were from when we had both sexted each other, and we both have permission to save the photos. He told her to stop, whilst nervously laughing, but she intentionally sought out a LOT of photos from a week apart. We’re obviously underage and she’s an adult, so this is illegal, but I would like to know where it stands morally and what we should do.

Whilst he was in a clothes shop changing room, she started going through his phone’s photos as he left it with her accidentally unlocked. She came across a nude photo of him, didn’t stop, kept going through nude photos of both of us. After she went through all of these photos, she kept swiping until she found more nude photos of both of us.

The entire time she was calling out jokes about the angles and body parts in the photos to him in the changing room. He was nervously laughing, but repeatedly telling her to stop going through the photos. I was not with them and also could not consent to this, as I had no idea it was happening. She looked at both of our nudes and has since made a recurring joke about his body over text (not an insulting one, but she’s referencing a specific photo that she remembered). She’s asexual, to reiterate, and is usually disgusted by sex but weirdly enjoyed looking at these photos of us. She thought it was all fun, but I think it’s very creepy and I think she may have been “curious” about our bodies in a non-sexual way. She definitely knew what she was doing and sought out more nude photos by continuing to look after finding the first one.

I feel violated. I would never want anybody to see our intimate photos that were taken for each other. I don’t want my boyfriend to be friends with her anymore, but I don’t know if this is reasonable when she is his best friend. What do you think?

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Submitted June 29, 2021 at 03:22PM by ThrowRA_aboutace https://ift.tt/36hWwSh