I’m 30f, new bf 44m of 3 months moved in last week. Going great but received anonymous message from an ex saying he is abusive? At a loss

We met via an online dating site and everything has been going amazingly, I can easily say this is the best start to a relationship I’ve been in so far. He is considerate, very loving and giving, very giving in bed and very attentive and sweet.

We were dating when we were put into lockdown and made the decision that he could come spend it at mine. It’s been going so so well and I can’t imagine not living with him now. So we decided he could just move in (I know it’s quick but we’ve been getting on great so far and both live in a capital city so it is $$$$).

Yesterday I received a DM via Instagram from an empty account saying they were sorry for randomly reaching out but they were worried I was involved with an abusive man. They said they ended things with him late Feb, had met at work, were in their 20s and he had previously left and cheated on his wife for a woman in their 20s. They said he’d lovebombed them when they dated and lied about his marriage, and she’d seen his ex wife’s Facebook profile talking about him cheating, domestic abuse allegations etc. She said she had left the country anyway and didn’t want anything to do with him, just hoped I was safe.

He says it was just a short fling with someone who is obviously extremely bitter it didn’t work out. I’ve tried to find this ex wife’s Facebook and can’t find her anywhere so idk, zero evidence of anything.

I’ve been trying to ignore it but it’s kind of on my mind and he’s obviously now also moved in... maybe he’s sent it though? Like as a test or something? Odd either way

TL;DR - my new boyfriend has moved in with me and I’ve been sent a quite frankly bizarre anonymous message claiming he’s a manipulative lying abuser.

Submitted May 24, 2020 at 02:39PM by chill_bill123 https://ift.tt/3ee3Gc0