TLDR; We all went to dinner for my fiancé’s birthday and my future FIL made a joke and said how their (fiancé’s mom & dad) ideal plan would have been for him to marry their friend’s daughter. My feelings are kind of hurt even though I know it was a joke. Should I just brush it off?
So, first off I feel like I have I pretty good relationship with my in-laws. But, sometimes I do feel as if they like me they just don’t think I’m the one for their son. If that makes sense? Idk it makes sense in my head lol. I communicated this to my fiancé and he reassured me that they love me. Okay, cool. I moved on and just assumed it was my own insecurities eating away at me.
But tonight at my fiancé’s birthday dinner, my future FIL made a joke about how their ideal plan would have been for my fiancé to marry their friends’ daughter. Yeah, I understand people plan and make a joke out of that type of stuff. Anyway, nobody said anything after that and I felt so awkward and I just didn’t know what to say. My fiancé’s mom, who usually just giggles at everything (a very light-hearted woman, bless her soul) didn’t even say one word and she most definitely didn’t giggle.
The joke definitely left a sour taste in my mouth. I just feel kind of hurt and maybe that I’m thinking too hard about this. I’m also starting to feel the way that I felt in the beginning. I don’t want to say anything to them or to my fiancé. I guess I’m just kinda hurt? Would this hurt your feelings?
Submitted December 01, 2019 at 06:44PM by gypsygrl98 https://ift.tt/2sCvFj8
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