I (29F) recently had a massive argument with my now ex over his continued close relationship with his ex (28f).
I had expressed that I was uncomfortable before but he told me I was paranoid.
Several times I found out they took overnight “group trips” together while we were exclusively dating. Didn’t tell me about them. I found out through the tagged social media posts. This happened three times. Every time I asked him to tell me and he agreed then didn’t because he “didn’t want to start an argument”.
Want to add here she has tried to sabotage my career by putting complaints about me into my work.
This lead to a massive argument where I said she was still in love with him and if he didn’t see that he was blind or being purposely ignorant.
She always texts him. They go on solo trips together. And the crown recently was a, to me, romantic pic of them on the beach together him with his arm around her. Despite being group trips she never asks any of the other fiends to pose for photos. Only him.
I confronted him about this and he said “I don’t have feelings for her. If I did we’d still be together. In a relationship. Married.” I said this means she has obviously given you some indication she still wanted to be with you. He didn’t answer. So I told him to forget it we were over.
He responded saying I was obsessed and didn’t want to be with me.
Honestly, am I over reacting? I genuinely don’t know.
Tl;dr Broke up over SOs continued close relationship with his ex. Am I wrong?
Submitted June 23, 2019 at 02:39PM by arwyn89 http://bit.ly/2X0YSh8
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