My daughter (17f)has a crush on my boyfriend (33m) and shared multiple photos of him with her friends . My boyfriend is creeped out, what should I do about this?

I apologize if I make any miskates I've never made a post here.

For a bit of backstory, my daughter isn't actually my daughter ,she was my roommate's when I was 17 . I was the one who had mostly raised her and managed school because her mother was very overwhelmed with it all and would spend 5 to 6 days at her mother's house hence I was left with her baby.

As soon as we graduated she got a scholer ship to a school outside our country and left abruptly and since that day it has been me and my dear daughter with my boyfriend entering the picture 3 years ago.

The real problem started a few months ago when I noticed that whenever my boyfriend would vist she would blush and act all shy which didn't really raise any red flags because she was a teenager who had a harmless crush .that's all.

Things really started to blow up this week when things became escalated. I had caught her and her friends in my boyfriend's drawer at my house 2 weeks ago and we had a long talk about privacy and boundaries and I even had her go to weekly therapist appointments (she still goes) but a few hours ago my boyfriend told me that when he was showering in my room my daughter had tried to pick the lock to the bathroom and was trying to come in. I was mortified at this and immediately called my daughter who tried to lie at first but I showed her the footage I had from the cameras in my room. She said that she just wanted my shampoo cause her was all out, I told her to please tell me the truth as we had gotten toiletries yesterday.

I pointed out the fact that she had her phone with her as we could see on the footage and I told her to show me her phone, she becomes hysterical throws me the phone and locks her bedroom doors . I check her phone and I am shocked .she had been sending her friends pictures of my boyfriend shirtless in my bedroom, sleeping, cooking and just doing everyday things when he visited. They all seemed to have a crush on him.

I don't know how to approach this situation and it all feels so new and I am incredibly disappointed in my daughter who is still in her room. My bf had left after her saw the photos and was really creeped out. So reddit what should I do, I am so confused and sad about this àll and have been second guessing all my actions Tdlr:I found out my daughter and her friends have a crush on my boyfriend and have been invading his privacy.

Submitted June 23, 2021 at 05:39PM by huma200 https://ift.tt/3xQcY82