My grandma (72) constantly gives me anxiety and makes me (24f) only want to sit in my room when I’m not working

I’ve recently moved in with my grandparents temporarily(my mom lives 20 hrs away) while I search for a reasonably priced apartment since mine decided to raise rent $200..

Every time I wake up and say good morning my grandma always has something negative to say or asks a condescending question and gets mad when I defend myself...

Like this morning I came out and tried to just make it a good morning for everyone before I head to work but instead of saying good morning back she was like “um why did you get home at 1:45 am?!” in a very rude voice.. what’s funny is she knows I’m a bartender and that I closed last night so it’s not like she had to do rocket science to figure out why I would be getting home late..

When my grandfather stands up for me she just ignores me or only talks to me like I’m a nuisance for the next few hours

When my mom and her friend were in town for vacation, my grandma tried to say anything that just belittled me and treated me like a child and laughed about it.. I would defend myself and explain it was hurting me but she would just respond with “I’m just picking on you” and brush it off as no big deal

She wasn’t always like this and is generally a very kind person, it just seems like recently I can’t do anything right in her eyes and it’s making me very depressed.. she also tries to spray my cats with ammonia when they jump on the counter and got upset when I asked her to not do that because it will hurt them. She blames my cats when her dog pees on the floor even though her dog has always peed on the floor before I started living here. Makes comments like “you must not be cleaning the litter boxes” even though I clean them two times a day and my cats most definitely don’t pee on the floor.

tl;dr: grandma has recently been being rude to me and starting my days not good with her attitude. Leaving me depressed and anxious at home.

Submitted June 23, 2021 at 06:00AM by hulahoopinraver https://ift.tt/3jaKAJt