Moved to new city to be with girlfriend, then she broke up with me feeling extremely lonely, depressed, and angry.

I 27M moved to a new city to be with my girl 29F (now ex). Her career basically required her to get a job in a new city. In hindsight, she was somewhat distant the entire 2 year relationship and she rarely saw me more than 1 time a week (she claimed she was so engrossed with work). I was working/living from home during the pandemic and felt extremely lonely during most of our relationship. I feel that I was extremely patient with her.

I obsessively applied to over 300 jobs during a pandemic to be able to find a job that would allow us to live together. Once I started applying to said jobs she started getting extremely distant and rude toward me. I put in so much effort to be with her. She could have gotten a job in my city fairly easily, but refused to do so.

She broke up with me almost instantly after I moved to the new city. She had a lot of commitment issues clearly. I have absolutely no friends or emotional support here. This is a much smaller city and it’s very hard to meet people and the dating scene is pretty bad. I feel like I ruined my whole life for this girl.

TL:DR: I 27M moved to a city to be with my girl (now ex 29F). I feel that I sacrificed my whole life to be with her and put up with so many lies and manipulation and basically ruined my life. Have no idea how to move forward.

Submitted June 21, 2021 at 08:09AM by abc993 https://ift.tt/3cZYbzm