my boyfriend and i's (18F and 19M) close friend recently went through a break up, and then began dating a guy she had only known for a week. the first time we met him, we thought he was nice, but over the past few weeks my boyfriend has started to express concerns, and i've started to feel worried too. i'll try my best to keep this short.
- her new boyfriend began constantly talking about her around our friends, saying he loved her only after days. when she wasn't present, he brought up the possibility of her changing colleges to be closer to him.
- when one of our friends expressed some annoyance towards him, he got angry and said that we were jealous. on another occasion, he got angry at me for saying something that had nothing to do with him, but that he assumed did.
- over the past few weeks, my friend has been communicating a lot less with me, our friends, and especially a lot less with my boyfriend--who is her best friend. she seems really isolated
- he (the new boyfriend) messaged me about a guy that had liked my friend (his new girlfriend) a long time ago, like months ago. he tried to make the guy out to be a creep, for some reason, even though he was nice. and he apparently did this to multiple people we know, probably out of insecurity or jealously? either way, it's mean and strange
my boyfriend's friend is really independent, so there's not much i think we could say to her. but from one girl to another it doesn't feel okay. it seems kind of like he was lovebombing to me, and it's hard to tell how she is feeling. is there anything we should do? are my bf and i reading too much into this, should i stay out of it, wait and see...ect? thanks in advance <3
tl;dr: close friend has a new boyfriend who is moving too fast, isolating her from her friends, and starting pointless conflicts with us
Submitted June 21, 2021 at 01:39AM by uhhhhhzombies https://ift.tt/2SLcocO
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