How do you guys feel about girlfriends who still stay in occasional touch with past ex boyfriends? My GF right now has been pretty open from the start on how she has stayed in occasional touch with her 2 exes for years (long before we met). One was from about 6 years ago, the other they broke up a couple years back.
My first instinct has been to push back, but she’s been open and transparent about everything. It’s pretty infrequent, and when one of the exes asked her to hangout she told him she had a boyfriend. She even showed a random snap the old ex sent, which was literally just a new kitchen appliance.
For now, I told her that she doesn’t have to delete any one off social media or block numbers as I have no intention of controlling her social life to that extent. I did mention, however, that I’m not okay with her replying to them for now which she agreed.
Am I being insecure, or did I not do enough to draw a line in the sand? Or perhaps I handled everything well and this is all completely healthy?
TL;DR: GF has always kept in occasional touch with exes long before we met. Unsure of how I handled our convo about it.
Submitted November 03, 2021 at 01:40PM by Commercial-Escape827 https://ift.tt/3nVACwu
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